Who is to blame for the abuse?
The batterer is always responsible for their actions. A batterer's own attitudes and behavior cause them to be controlling and violent.
Is the use of chemicals or alcohol to blame for the abuse?
Chemicals and alcohol do not cause domestic violence. Violence can be more severe when there are chemicals or alcohol involved, but the violence would occur regardless.
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Below are additional resources from trusted organizations and partners.
Formerly known as Minnesota Coalition for Battered Women
Safe at Home is designed to help people who fear for their safety maintain a confidential address. Many times program participants are survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, stalking or people with professional safety concerns.
Domestic violence occurs between people in an intimate relationship. It’s an ongoing pattern of intimidation, coercion, and violence to establish and maintain control over another person.
Battering may occur in any relationship and includes emotional, sexual, and physical abuse. Threats, intimidation, isolation and economic abuse are also forms of battering. Males or females can be the batterer or victim and our organization is open to all individuals seeking help.